'How Are You?'
'I'm fine.'
I believe these are the most common greeting conversations in our daily lives. And "I'm fine" appears to be the most common and intuitive answer when we are greeted with "How are you?" This could be due to how we are taught to response to a greeting since we were a child. Some may answered it differently, for instance, "I'm great!", "Hmm... so...so" to "Life sucks!" Thus, it is usually a direct reflection of our mood/feeling (vibes) during the engagement of conversation.
However, have you ever caught yourself answering with positive replies but in fact, you felt the opposite? Even worse, you don't even know how to answer it? Frankly, I am one of them as I intend to project a positive impression, yet I couldn't hide the intense negative vibes I had within me.
Regardless whether you are in the former or latter situation, I found "How are you?" can be a powerful and helpful tool to remind yourself about using the "Reset button" (to change your vibrations). It's so important to change my negative vibrations to a positive ones since the Law of Attraction always matches my vibrations by giving me more of the same.
I have studied, adopted, preached and even shared knowledge about Law of Attraction since 3 years ago. However, I acknowledge I have one challenge I always face, which is losing the self-awareness to use the "Reset button", which I have learnt from Michael J Losier. I fully understood the importance of using the "Reset button" by asking "What do I want?" when I find myself with negative vibes. But, that's only when I am having the self-awareness, to be able to part from the situation and see at it from the perspective of a 3rd person. I was highlighting the same to Derek and Ceddy yesterday when I met them at Michael's 2-hour Law of Attraction Public Seminar. But now, I believe I have found the answer, something I have learnt from Derek. Law of Attraction is matching my vibration again!
Here is how I find we can use "How are you?" as a trigger to consistently make our self-awareness at work, since that's the common way we greet our friends, colleagues, clients, family members every time we meet them.
1. Whenever you found yourself answering "How are you?" with a negative reply or even with a positive reply but feeling the opposite, remind yourself to press the "Reset button"!
2. Whenever you found the other party answering your greeting of "How are you?" with a negative reply or even with a positive reply but feeling the opposite, remind them to press the "Reset button" by asking them "What do you want?"
I felt great to have found the answer!
