Don't Care The How, Just Ask and You Will Get it

I love these statement... I got all I want if only I am wise enough to be as simple as just asking and leave it till I receive it... I am a planner, I love to want something, then I plan, and then hoping my plan to work.. But it din't work dat way in life... Life is actually too simple but humans complicate it... We want something, we plan, we struggle, we resist, then eventually when we get it, I guess it's no longer trully wat we want.. Or maybe we can only do so much, do whatever it takes, but if we don't get it means we don't get it...
I have experienced many times just being so simple, ask, then do what i have to do, what came to me, and I go with the flow.. In the end the results is just what I wanted and sometimes better than I expected.. The process to get what we want is unpredictable, so why do we struggle so much? We have to go through it anyway... I always relate it to a journey, lets say we want to travel from KL to Singapore.. We know the road from KL to Singapore already.. If we predict there is a jam at this time, and we try to skip it and travel another time... What if there is an accident just right on the time we choose to travel? And it may delay.. Does it make any different if we travel earlier or later? We will still arrive Singapore... The worries we create destroy our mood, destroy our excitment to Singapore.. Why ruin it since we will arrive there anyway? How we arrive is never what we really can predict or plan.. But the more we can go with the flow, all the thing that could happen may seems to be obstacle become a story of your journey.. When you arrive at your destination, thats when you can be happy being there and plus a memory of your journey... :P

I own a cafe with my family... We work well in it and never expect to sell it so soon.. But things just happen unexpectedly, two of my main chefs ran away.. It's unpredictable and mom got panic.. She wanted to let go the cafe as fast as possible.. But we trully can't just leave the cafe as we still have a deposit with the landlord and of course our initial investment that cost around 100k... I can't just lose it all.. Mom has no heart to retrain new chef and I'm totally no way to take over the cooking part... keke.. maggie mee is fine... So i try to work this out.. don't care the how, just ask...

I usually do this by writing it on my phone, typing an sms and save it to draft... I wrote, 'I want to sell this cafe by mid of June for at least 90k smoothly'... and I am honestly telling you, it just happened as i asked... And my cafe was hand-over to the new owner on 15th June 2008... There are many doubts from my parents side, what if they cannot start so fast? What if the management don't aprove, what if this and that? I don't care, I just do everything, as if I already sold the cafe.. Unexpectedly, the management approve instantly, and the buyer agreed with everything.. And the buyer love everything in the cafe including my signboards.. which all these easier for me to let go... This is only one of my experience that it works.. There are more amazing stories in my life... I can't wait to share... :P

So, don't care the HOW, Just Ask and You'll get it.....

Wai See