Free Will

God has given us choices in the creation of our lives .

According to the metaphysical world, we and God plan the journey of our lives , But we did not plan the precise thoughts, words and desicions .These details are up to us. We are given numerous choices and it is up to us to plan it and reach our spiritual goal any way we want.

The goal is the same, even though there are many different paths to it. Our objective it to reach enlightenment and we have countless options, choices and desicions to us while we walk our path on the earth.

The ability to get things we want is truly a gift from the God .We use our free will and psychic common sense to draw our heart's desite to us.

Star@David

Karma

Karma in sanscrit means " deed or act" . It is actually a gift to us from God. It is actually a test , we move on higher if we pass each test. Most us of think that Karma is the "payback" from our previous deeds.

While it is true that whatever we give - either positive or negative - it will return to us in some way. Misconception of Karma - people tend to think that life is constantly paying us back for some unknown wrong we commited.

We are actually dealing with a higher spiritual issue here - Karma is the gift from God for our souls to " learn" .

For example. Lets say that your lover left you because you left her/him in your previous life and you may think that you are paying the price now - but that may be not the case.

The issue here is that your spirit wants to learn how it feels like being rejected or how it feels like to break someones heart. Remember we came here to learn the good and bad side of human beings.In metaphysical notion - Two souls came together because you had related issues to be resolved and ,lessons to learn .

This is based on the life plans created on the spirit world by you ! yes you ! for your soul to realise and move on to higher spiritual consiousness.

Example of good karma - is positive, loving relationship, good friends and families. Many times specific souls would re-incarnate with other compatible souls to accomplish a mission.Example :- Many times supreme soul Maha Vishnu reincarnated with his consort and other devas (angels) to destroy demons to establish righteousness on the Human world.

So folks -remember to be kind, helpful, share love and respect others - it is a safe way to guard your positive karma .We all have karma suitcase with us now -some of us with loads of negative lessons to learn and some of us with positive and joyful ones. Hopefully we have a lot of positive and joyful ones ;-)

Cheers

Star@David

To succeed = PDCA (Plan –Do – Check –Act )

PDCA was made popular by Professor Deming.

PLAN - Establish the objectives and processes necessary to deliver results in accordance with the specifications.

DO - Implement the processes

CHECK - Monitor and evaluate the processes and results against objectives and Specifications and report the outcome.

ACT - Apply actions to the outcome for necessary improvement.

This means reviewing all steps (Plan, Do, Check, Act) and modifying the process to improve it before its next implementation. This method was adopted by Japanese Motor industry and proven to be very effective.

But few of us know that a similar method have been written in the Saiva(Shiva) Siddhanta philosophy some 3000 years ago - We can use this PDCA to check our individual growth. Saiva Siddhandta method -

Just replace the PLAN to KNOW(Knowledge) and it becomes KDCA.

Example :- If we want to start of any business ventures. First we must have the knowledge of the market and the business before venturing into it. After getting the know how - we step into the business . After that - We need to CHECK constantly on the business progress and the market trend - Then ACT on any improvements /cost cutting structures (repeat the process itself - Know , Do, Check, Act)

Cheers
Star@David

Don't be attached to the results

This is one of my favorite verse in the Bhagavad Gita ( Hindu holy scripture) by Lord Krishna. What it means that you should not worry about how things will turn out.



Know that no matter whathappens there is a divine plan in action.



Do your best and leave the rest to God. Follow dharmic rules or path of righteousness ( do good ,be good, hurt no one & etc). Whatever we do , first we must trust the divine force within ourselves to lead us to the right place at the right time.



You must trust yourself that you will always get what you should have for your spiritual growth and wellbeingIf you are on your last $$$ and the credit card payment is due. stop worrying about paying for Credit card debts and start concentrating on the opportunities that are available to get it paid , trust me...opporunities will show up !!!

Cheers
Star@David

Motto of Richard Branson@from the book Screw it , let's do it

All successful people have some guiding principles which takes them to new challenges and tests - and every lesson learned is a direct results from the principles they hold strongly to

Motto of Richard Branson:-

1) Just do it
2) Think Yes, not no
3) Challenge yourself
4) Have fun
5) Make difference
6) Stand on your own feet
7) Be loyal
8) Live life to the full

Regards
Star@David

Terrorist Attack

I attended a seminar, last Friday. There is one point the speaker mentioned that make me keep on pondering.

"People are busy talking about terrorists striking here and there, but have you ever stopped and thought about the terrorist that is in our head? The one who is shooting down our dreams and ambitions. The one who is stopping us in our tracks. The one that is making us worthless? What are you going to do about that terrorist?", the speaker asked.

It's in fact a very relevant question. We can do something about it. We tend to think and analyze others. Have we ever stop by and analyze ourselves instead? Do we really know ourselves well enough? Do we really know what we really want or what is our true purpose?

This is a very vital question to be asked by everyone. This is a vital step that needs to be taken.

GKing

Francis Attracted A 5 Dollar Note

A few months ago, I got a call from Francis, my ex-colleague, to have a lunch together. Apparently he has left the company we both worked for last time and joined a new company near my current employer. Without any hesitation, I accepted his invitation and met up with him.

Over the lunch, we have shared a lot of news and stories about our work, as usual. In our conversation, we have also talked about my trips and the discussion get extended to the Law of Attraction/The Secret. We have exchanged a lot of 'Q&A', especially on the application of Law of Attraction and reasons that prevent the manifestation to realized.

Since I have heard a great yet simple success story, I shared with him how my friend successfully attracted a 50 dollar note from the street and suggested him to try the same.

"Francis, when we attract a million dollar or a BMW, it tends to realize very slowly or even not showing any sign of it happening. How about just start with something small, see it happen, let the evidence to strengthen your believe. Once the doubt is reduced, the 'Allowing' will lead the manifestation to kick-in faster and stronger. Just try to attract a 50 dollar note like what my friend has done and see the result for yourself.'

We had a great lunch and we parted to get back to our respective office. When I sat down on my workstation and was about to continue with my work, I received a SMS/text message from Francis - 'Huat Heng, can you believe that I just pick up a 5 dollar note?'.

I was so pleased to see the Law of Attraction at work again and the evidence Francis experienced. Hope this will also help you as a 'quick start' in successfully applying the Law of Attraction.

Huat Heng

New Year Resolution

It will be approximately 5 weeks left before the new year of 2009. Besides enjoying the upcoming festive holidays, I believe it's a great time to review the 'achievement' in the year of 2008 and also listing some new goals for 2009.

In fact, I have to admit that I have never come up with any new year resolution for over 27 years of my life until I started it in the year of 2006. Since then, I have make it a habit to review and set the resolution annually because I have started to see improvements in my life!

'Personal Transformation' is the theme for my new year resolution in 2008. I have spent massive efforts in identifying my weaknesses, seek expertise advices and execute some plans to improve myself to be a better person. Besides, I have also expand my views with several trips to new places this year.

I have visited 4 countries, 8 cities and 8 airports this year (details as below). Out of these cities, some in my list were not achieved, while some appeared to be 'bonuses' to me. Nevertheless, they were still pleasant trips that expanded my exposure and experience in learning more about the cities, people and countries. There will more interesting new experiences for 2009!

4 Countries

• China
• Vietnam
• Singapore
• Thailand

8 Cities

• Beijing
• Shanghai (twice)
• Hangzhou
• Suzhou
• Ho Chi Minh
• Singapore
• Bangkok (three times)
• Chiangmai
  

8 Airports

• Kuala Lumpur International Airport
• Beijing Capital International Airport
• Shanghai Pudong International Airport
• Hangzhou Xiaoshan International Airport
• Tan Son Nhat Internation Airport
• Singapore Changi Airport
• Suvarnabhumi Airport
• Chiangmai Airport

In the coming year, I would like to theme it 'Rejuvenating 2009'- a year for re-build and enhancement.

I highly recommend that you also write down your goal/new year resolution (if you have not started doig so) as it will help you to have a clearer picture of your direction you are heading to, helps you to review your course of actions and realign them back if you are off the course. You may try the approach James Arthur Ray taught.

Simply, we need 3 big pieces of paper. Then label them as the following:

• WHAT I WANT TO BE
• WHAT I WANT TO DO
• WHAT I WANT TO HAVE

Start on the WHAT I WANT TO BE sheet, start writing down all the things you want to be, in the aspects of physical, mental and spiritual, for five minutes without letting your pen stop.

Then continue with the WHAT I WANT TO DO and WHAT I WANT TO HAVE with the same aspects as above for 5 minutes non-stop respectively.

From the list you have made, you may want to categorize them by short term, medium term and long term goal. You may also create your own Visualization Board and place it in front of your desk to always remind yourself about these goals.

Once you can clearly see the vision and starts to manifest, you will experience the great achievements.

I wish you all the best for the coming year of 2009!

Huat Heng

Change

Many people are affected by it. Many people spend sleepless nights over it. There are different changes in life. Change of bosses at work, change of teachers in school, change of economic environment.

Some people embrace it. Many people despise it.

I am sure at some point you would have stopped to think why there are so many changes. Why is this happening to me? I wish things where like the good old days. So how do we handle it? How do we address it?

I would like to share with you an experience I faced when I was travelling in a bus during a weekend to Penang. Normally, just to kill time, I like to listen to motivational audio tapes.

That particular day, I was listening to this tale from an author of the book “Who moved my cheese”. For those who don’t know, it’s a book relating to how to deal with change.

I found it very interesting and many points from that book changed some perceptions of mine. So I feel this is good to share them with you all.

WHAT
So what is this story about?

There are 4 characters. 2 are mice and two are little men-Hem and Haw. They all live in maze and live on cheese. Each character has its own characteristics. Well, cheese is a metaphor for our career, life, interests…etc.

Their daily job is to search for cheese in the maze. This involves running around in the maze and locates the cheese to survive. Now this task goes on day after day.

Apparently one day the group stumbles on a area in the maze having a huge reserve of cheese. They are all very happy.

The little men think they have arrived and became complacent. They decide to settle in that area of the maze. While the mice continue to be alert the human become complacent that they already accomplished what it takes and decided to settle down. As time goes by, supply dwindles and one day the cheese is no more. Hem is very angry. “Why is this happening to me? I don’t deserve this!” he shouted.

Does this sound familiar? While Hem is arguing with Haw, the mice look at the situation of no cheese, realize its change, take the running gear off their necks and start to search for new cheese.

They didn’t over-analyze things. They were prepared.

After a few days of starving, Haw - the little person, has a change in mind. He laughs at himself for his folly. He feels helpless but realizes that sitting there fuming over what happened is not going to solve the problem.

He decides to move on and find new cheese. He is scared because he has not done it in a long time. Hem tries to persuade him with ‘what if there is no cheese out there?’…etc.

Haw does not want to listen to him. He decides to start searching for cheese with the end picture in mind.

Initially it’s not a good feeling running into the dark corridors coming out from the comfort zone. But as time progresses, he begins to love what he is doing. He begins to believe in himself. Ultimately, he finds his cheese.

WHY
Why is this tale being told? How significant is to me? There are times in life when everything goes smoothly, we are complacent and we don’t want to take risks anymore. And suddenly changes happen. And most of the people are helpless.

HOW
What could be done? I really felt that one should act like what Haw did- to move on with clear picture of the end result in mind, which is cheese :) He laughed at his own folly of not acting earlier and started to find new cheese.

You will be surprised what the mind can churn up when it’s charged or instructed accordingly.

We need to look at things positively and act swiftly without over-analyzing things.

As what Haw did in the story, by letting go and beginning to search for new cheese, he trusted what lay ahead and started to feel good again. Ultimately he found new cheese.

The same happened to me at work. I feel better again and people tend to notice too.

Many a times it’s the fear that holds people back. As Haw found the new reserve of better quality cheese, he wrote on the wall this quote, “When you move beyond fear, you become free and happy”.

GKing

Universal Law of Circulation

Every aspect of human beings is in constant cyclic reaction. I’m sharing my experience from all the religious and metaphysical books I’ve read and from the events that is shaping around the globe.

Be it love, money, good will or even bad intentions, trust me that whatever you spread around is going to come back to you

Universal Law of Circulation is very important for us to know if we are to manifest our desires in the Metaphysical world. Law of Attraction and The Secret stresses on how to get things. But before that, the angels or devas need to know whether we truly deserve it.

There is on the other hand- the law of Karma- your soul deeds on your previous birth, current life Karma - but to counter whatever bad things we did on our previous lives can be dissolved slowly by doing prayers and follow this “3 code of conduct – do good, be good, good thought”.

If we want to receive our desires- first we must spread around to others exactly what we want and must do it with a grateful heart. Then the cycle will complete when our desires match or in sync with the desires of others involved in our intention. All this will happen on an invisible, vibratory level.

All sentient beings circulate energy, and when we voice our clear intentions to the universe the energy is circulated. We may think, we are not related to events or humans who are far apart from us. But remember, all living things came from ONE source no matter what differences we have. All of us are interrelated.

We can see the Law of Circulation is working in our lives when after we have made our desires known to the Universe, synchronistic events begin to happen. And after sometime our desire begin to materialize.

Giving to others the very thing we intend to draw into our live starts a physic chain reaction in the universe. Angels/Devas are very merciful – Gifts multiple as it spread from person to person and then returns to us multiplied.

We need not tell everyone what we are to manifest. Spread your intention in subtle ways.

For example, if you want to have more money or want the flow of money to increase in your life, you must give it away – By the way don’t make yourself go broke in the process, but rather just give a portion of generous amount and give it to those in need and the places, or person who teaches you and inspires your spiritual growth, such as temples, churches, mosques or any charitable organizations. That’s as good as money in the bank!

But do not give money to people who would HOARD it, don’t expect to get any back, let alone a multiplied return. And importantly, you must give without expecting to receive. If your motivation is to give money to make a show of your gratitude and get more money back – forget it. The gods are wise and know you are not totally good-intentioned. Better start of by plenty of affirmations to ward of greed and fear from your mentality first.

Selfless service demonstrates to the God and all of his devas/angels that you are thankful for the opportunity to live and thrive and more importantly show to others that you want the best for others, too.

Star@David

Don't Care The How, Just Ask and You Will Get it

I love these statement... I got all I want if only I am wise enough to be as simple as just asking and leave it till I receive it... I am a planner, I love to want something, then I plan, and then hoping my plan to work.. But it din't work dat way in life... Life is actually too simple but humans complicate it... We want something, we plan, we struggle, we resist, then eventually when we get it, I guess it's no longer trully wat we want.. Or maybe we can only do so much, do whatever it takes, but if we don't get it means we don't get it...
I have experienced many times just being so simple, ask, then do what i have to do, what came to me, and I go with the flow.. In the end the results is just what I wanted and sometimes better than I expected.. The process to get what we want is unpredictable, so why do we struggle so much? We have to go through it anyway... I always relate it to a journey, lets say we want to travel from KL to Singapore.. We know the road from KL to Singapore already.. If we predict there is a jam at this time, and we try to skip it and travel another time... What if there is an accident just right on the time we choose to travel? And it may delay.. Does it make any different if we travel earlier or later? We will still arrive Singapore... The worries we create destroy our mood, destroy our excitment to Singapore.. Why ruin it since we will arrive there anyway? How we arrive is never what we really can predict or plan.. But the more we can go with the flow, all the thing that could happen may seems to be obstacle become a story of your journey.. When you arrive at your destination, thats when you can be happy being there and plus a memory of your journey... :P

I own a cafe with my family... We work well in it and never expect to sell it so soon.. But things just happen unexpectedly, two of my main chefs ran away.. It's unpredictable and mom got panic.. She wanted to let go the cafe as fast as possible.. But we trully can't just leave the cafe as we still have a deposit with the landlord and of course our initial investment that cost around 100k... I can't just lose it all.. Mom has no heart to retrain new chef and I'm totally no way to take over the cooking part... keke.. maggie mee is fine... So i try to work this out.. don't care the how, just ask...

I usually do this by writing it on my phone, typing an sms and save it to draft... I wrote, 'I want to sell this cafe by mid of June for at least 90k smoothly'... and I am honestly telling you, it just happened as i asked... And my cafe was hand-over to the new owner on 15th June 2008... There are many doubts from my parents side, what if they cannot start so fast? What if the management don't aprove, what if this and that? I don't care, I just do everything, as if I already sold the cafe.. Unexpectedly, the management approve instantly, and the buyer agreed with everything.. And the buyer love everything in the cafe including my signboards.. which all these easier for me to let go... This is only one of my experience that it works.. There are more amazing stories in my life... I can't wait to share... :P

So, don't care the HOW, Just Ask and You'll get it.....

Wai See

Changes?

To me "Changes" is a "Sign To Receive" or I called it a "Gate"... A gate that awaiting us to open...
A gate to receive more from life... A gate of reward... I believe so much that what is behind the gate is trully more of what I expected, I can't wait to open it, I can't wait to receive my reward,
I just can't wait...

But usually when changes occur, my first reaction is panic, then resist, then afraid, then doubt, then confuse, then dissapointed and all negative thoughts went on and on till I forgot that it is actually a sign of finding the right key to open a gate to receive more from life or it's time to reap what I have sow...

I have an experience of being disable for almost 2 years when I was 23 years old... I just graduated with a mind of building my career.. From an energetic person that talk fast, do things fast and walk fast to a person that couldn't talk much, couldn't do anything and definately couldn't walk anymore... This change really put alot of questions into my mind but with my physical pain, I just bother to find way of healing instead finding the right key to open my gate! Thinking back, the moment I recover is the moment I actually found my right key to the gate of more... Its amazing...

The right key to open my gate is to "Let Go" the resistance of the changes and "Accept" that changes is a gate for more.... Once I let go, that is when I started to receive more from life... The moment I start to heal is when I already let go and accept my own definition of changes... I accepted that yes I couldn't move freely anymore, but my life is still going right.. I start to continue my life, from working at home to starting a cafe of my own... I learn to be patient, my relationship with my family is tremendously close as i always wish to be, I am more connected to my true self, to GOD, and I have bring health into my family and myself.. I have found the best doctor in the world that able not to cure me but also to maintain my family's health that I believe can happen from now till forever... I have found the kid in me which I feel younger in my heart than I was before... There are more what I have gain from this changes in my life, those are the main ones..

But my impatience always confuse me to use the right key to open my gate.... So if the question came to me when wil the gate open? The time for the gate to open is the time I use to switch my mind from believing this changes is bad for me instead of believing that the changes is to receive more of what I want in life.. It not difficult but its not easy either.. It's possible!

May all of us able to recognise this... If there is a change in your life that seems bad for you, be excited about it instead of being fearful... Why resist the change when you know it's only a path to go through to your gift that is waiting for you to receive?

Wai See

Do You Think This Is Just A Coincidence?

When I decided to change my job and start sending out resumes, I “asked” that in a day I will get two interview calls from non-profit organizations. Guess what? Last Monday, I really received two interview invitations, one from email and another from phone call and both of them were from non-profit organizations.

Among the 2 interviews, I actually prefer one of the jobs as a Data Manager. So, I imagined myself working in that organization. Few hours after the interview, they called me back and wanted me to go in for 2nd interview on the next day. Few days later, I got the job offer!

I told one of my friends how amazing “The Secret” is, but she doesn’t believe it and said it was just a coincidence. My dear friends who are reading this blog, what do you think?

Now, come to my H1B application. For those who knew how the US H1B working visa is processed, the application for private organization has to send in by April 1 and wait for the result. Like others, I sent in mine too. But since I got a new job offer, I have to resubmit my application and canceled the previous application. This means that I have to pay another $3000 (USD) again because my lawyer told me I couldn’t cancel the application that I have sent in and I can't get the money back. So, I made another wish. I sent out the “message” that my new visa application will be free.

Well, this morning my lawyer called me and gave me good news! She said I can cancel the cheque and so when the USCIS alert me regarding the payment, I just need to send them a letter and ask them to withdraw my case. By doing so, I will be able to get back at least $2500 and that will cover my new visa application fees.

See, another “coincidence” happened to me again.

I want to thanks Huat Heng, who introduced to me "The Secret" and showed me that, I actually can get what I dream for, what I want for and what I ask for. Nothing is impossible. All I have to do is just ASK - RECEIVE - ACCEPT. The same goes to you too!

Guest Blogger

Shwu Huoy

You Can Get It If You Really Want

Invited by my friend Huat Heng as guest blogger to share my own experiences, I decided to pick this title, which is also the name of a song by Jimmy Cliff-You Can Get It If You Really Want. Mainly due to it is a wonderful song and it has inspired me a lot in my life.



I believe that music therapy may be one of the most convenient and effective motivation approach. So here, I recommend the lyrics to you.

You can get it if you really want

But you must try, try and try

Try and try, you'll succeed at last

Persecution you must bear

Win or lose you've got to get your share

Got your mind set on a dream

You can get it, though harder them seem now

You can get it if you really want

But you must try, try and try

Try and try, you'll succeed at last

I know it, listen

Rome was not built in a day

Opposition will come your way

But the hotter the battle you see

It's the sweeter the victory, now

You can get it if you really want

But you must try, try and try

Try and try, you'll succeed at last

You can get it if you really want - I know it

You can get it if you really want - though I show it

You can get it if you really want
So don't give up now

I understand that it is hard to keep our belief when we were 'beaten down' (faced obstacles) more than once in our life. We tried but we failed. Then our confidence begin to shake and we are afraid of 'tomorrow'. We doubted on ourselves and asked, "Was I inferior to others?" It seems there was no end to the darkness.

Can you believe that an outstanding girl who is good at dancing, singing and sports would ever get depressed? In fact, even her friends and teachers couldn’t believe it. Yeah, I don’t believe it either until I experienced it by myself.

I am the girl described above. Everything just started with my high school life with a group of girls, only girls. In their eyes, it is merely a new environment. However, to me, it was the most difficult time in my life. I just can’t fit myself into the environment. Before that, depression is only a word far away in the book or TV shows. But during that time, it came into my life. I couldn’t focus on my study, though I tried to force myself. I couldn’t stop crying. I couldn’t face the life. I was depressed!

I tried to find a way out to get away from the girl school. It seemed so hopeless. Then an opportunity knocked at my door, thank God. I was chosen to be in a one-year exchange student program to U.S.A. However, it was not a happy ending story. The fact is always cruel. The need of expensive fee for the program demolished my dream, my hope and everything!

I returned to the same old days, which were full with tears, fears and insomnia. When I went to bed at night, I just hoped that I needn’t open my eyes again because only the dream was the warmest and sweetest.

I didn't consult any doctor as I understand that I AM THE ONLY PERSON WHO CAN HELP MYSELF. At last, after using many approachess such as keeping diary, doing exercises and self-therapy, I managed to conquered myself! The recovery process was not easy, in fact it was a struggle. However, I knew that I just have to face it for a positive change! Because I believe I can get what I really want!

In short, although future is unexpected but you can get it if you really want. Never say impossible before you try it!

Guest Blogger

Juilice Zhou

Sending Message Out to Universe/God

Most of us do not know how to send the right message to the Universe/God. There are certain methods to send the RIGHT message. I’m sharing my personal experience and the knowledge I’ve gained from various Gurus, yogis, metaphysicians and books.

Often, when we pray, we tend to tell all of our problems and needs. This way, we send mixed messages to the universe/God, thus we get mixed responses. So we have to tune our needs and wants properly in order to send the right message using the right method. Below is one of the techniques:-

Meditation
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This method is a powerful ancient techniques used by yogis, gurus and masters of the spiritual world to transcend to higher consciousness and enlightment

But first, you must write down what you want .You have to include the criteria below .You have to think the end result of your needs

1. Request
2. Safe guard
3 .Express gratitude

For example: - If you want a car

I am owner of a new BMW 5 series.
It came to me in a peaceful and safe way. With divine will and free will of all concerned. I thank god/universe for this gift. So be it.

The first step to practice meditation is by controlling our breathing. This is to calm ourselves and stabilize our energy flow to the body.

The guide:-

1. Find a quiet place in your house. Prayer room is the best. In your prayer altar, lit a candle/oil lamp, incense sticks, place flowers to the god’s picture according to your belief, it can be Lord Shiva/ Krishna or any other Hindu deities/ Makkah/ Jesus/ Buddha/ Gurus while you perform the meditation. Sit in a relaxed and comfortable position, your spine should be straight and your head in alignment with your body.

2. Take some deep breaths. Inhale through your nostrils, as it enters your nose, and feel as though the air is flowing in your stomach and then it is expelled. Just relax into this quiet moment.

3. Say this affirmation in your heart “I’m fully relaxed and I’m protected by God’s light.” Feel a white light around your body covering you in an oval shape.

4. Now focus on your 3rd eye. Your third eye is in the middle of your forehead between your eyebrows. Your 3rd eye governs your psychic vision and intuition. Imagine a deep indigo light whirling with full of brightness.

5. Then say this affirmation in your heart. “I’m now entering my subconscious mind.” Repeat this for 4 times. And finally (the 5th time) say this “I’m now in my subconscious mind.”

6. Now say in your heart the things you wish for. Use the affirmation note you have written down earlier by using the criteria mentioned above (Request, Safe guard, Express gratitude). Say it for 3 times.

7. This is the important part. After the steps above, you have to imagine yourself achieving the result you wanted. For example, if you wanted a BMW 5 series. Imagine yourself driving it, feel emotionally how it is like to drive the car. Imagine yourself driving it happily around for few minutes, then with the joyful feeling, slowly drift to your conscious state and open your eyes slowly.

8. You have sent the message to the God/Universe. Let the candle/ oil lamp burn for sometime until you begin to do something else or going out of your house. Do not BLOW the oil lamp or candle as it will disperse the energy. Just use a flower or anything else to off it gently.

9. Repeat this as many days or for 41 days maximum.

StarOfDavid

Coincident vs Law of Attraction

In the office, I was working on my task while listening to the MP3 on my Sony Ericsson K550i with the earphone on. It was playing the song 'Beep' by Pussy Cat Dolls.

Then, a MSN message pop-up on my laptop screen. The following were the conversation:

Ming: Do you like Pussy Cat Dolls' song?
Me: Yes. But only 1 song. Do you know Beep?
Ming: Ohh. I am about to send you this song.
Me: I am blasting the song on my phone. Ha Ha, it's such a coincident. Law of Attraction on us is so strong now.
Ming: Is it?
Me: Of course!

That was a real incident just happened on this lovely Monday (not a Blue Monday, definitely, because many great things happen to me). I believe it is just one of the event as a result of Law of Attraction.

Sounds familiar? Do you experience the same too? Please share your experiences.

Huat Heng

What Do I Want?

If you asked me to join a marathon 4 months ago, I would have called you crazy! I would have told you I do not have the endurance to go through such distance. I would have told you I'd rather sleep than spend 4 hours pounding stretches of hard and hot roads. I would have told you overweight people cannot run marathons, that it will be too painful. Probably a few more other excuses. That was me before I read about the Law of Attraction, before I discovered the power of harnessing my thinking. That was in December 2007.

Fast forward to January 2008. By this time, I have learnt a little about the Law of Attraction, and I told myself I will be able to run a half marathon if I keep my eye on the prize. I signed up with only one goal - to cross the finishing line. I had 2.5 months to train, and I trained at least once a week to prepare myself for it, and was very confident I could achieve my goal.

On the day of the race, I excitedly made my way to the marathon venue. When I reached the starting point, I saw the huge crowd of participants, and a majority of them were experienced runners. My confidence level suddenly dropped. I started to tell myself it's ok to not finish; I could just stop half way if I can't take it. I started making excuses for myself, my goal to finish the race was completely forgotten. I forgot about the Law of Attraction, I wasn't aware that subconsciously I was changing my goal.

I struggled during the first kilometer. The sight of confident runners around me further pushed my original goal down the drain. Throughout the run, I kept telling myself I will stop after 10km, I was so sure that I won't be able to go more than that.

After running for 8km, I started getting cramps and my left leg went numb. I had to stop at the medical booth at the 10km mark. My energy level was still high, and I could have continued and finished the rest of the 21km run, but because I told myself 10km is enough of an accomplishment, my body stopped at 10km and refused to budge. It took me 140 minutes to reach the 10km mark.

The ambulance brought me back to the starting line. While in the ambulance I thought about the run and why I failed. I realised then that I was concentrating on the wrong goal. I was asking for failure, not success!

2 weekends later, I joined another run. I considered it my redemption run. This time it was a hilly 10km run with stretches of flat road in between, not an easy route. I repeated my goals to myself the whole week; that I will finish the run, and I will finish it in 90 minutes, the average qualifying time for 10km runs.

I visualized myself crossing the finishing line. I visualized myself looking at my watch to find I've done it in 90 minutes. I was aware that just 2 short weeks ago I clocked 140 minutes for 10km, almost an hour more than my goal, but I did not allow this fact to influence me. All I know is I WILL finish the run, and I'll finish it in 90 minutes.

I finished the 10km run. And I finished it in 90 minutes!

It wasn't a miracle, far from it. Physically I was ready for long distance running, but I was mentally blocking my ability. Law of Attraction helped me fail my first marathon, and it helped me pass my second one with flying colors. By recognizing the power of Law of Attraction, I channeled it to get the great result I really wanted. You can achieve results using the Law of Attraction, both positive and negative results. So it's not a question of whether the Law of Attraction works, because it's a law and it will always work.

Therefore, the right question to ask is "What do I want?" Concentrate on what you really want, and then take advantage of the Law of Attraction to achieve it.

My goal now is to finish 10km in 70 minutes in my next run, which is due in 3 weeks. 20 minutes is a lot to shave off, but I KNOW I can do it, because that's what I want!

Nadiah

My Life Crusade

It all started in a sunny afternoon in the year of 2006 while I was helping my parents in spring cleaning (preparation for the Chinese New Year celebration).

Back in my school days in high school, there was some moments I asked myself the following questions:

- "Why am I here (on earth)?"
- "Are we (human) supposed to just being ordinary by undergoing the same cycle of birth, education, career, marriage, family...death?"
- "What do I need to achieve before 'returning' (death)?"

In short, I believe all these led to the one core question of 'What's my life purpose?'

I continue searching for the answer when I step into my higher education in university. I have discussed this openly with a few people. Many have advised me to search for the answer from the perspective of religion. One of my lecturer gave me a Quran while another friend of mine gave me a Bible, hoping to be able to provide me some clues to my search.

I stopped looking for the answer after I step into the career world. Just like many, I was swamped with works and lost focus on the answer I was looking for. Until this day, the day I was shed with an 'answer', from the universe I guess. I was hit with an idea that "I will help 1 million people". Since then, I set that as my life crusade.

As I share my life crusade with many people, I am glad that many has agreed that it's a noble vision and has supported me in achieving it. Many have also asked how do I plan to achieve it and how many people I have helped.

One of the favorable approaches is to share our knowledge and experiences, besides the monetary and charity contribution. Yes, I meant knowledge and experience, in which they are usually unique in nature, especially the background and environment each of us have vary.

As far as I understood, knowledge and experiences are just like our money. If there is no 'transaction'/ flow from one party to another, the value appears to be lower (in the context of money, there is no economy!) With simple and relaxing discussion/sharing session, knowledge and experiences are exchanged, thus enhancing each others' understanding and create awareness on certain areas. At the same time, inspire/motivate them to live a better life!

Personally, I believe "The Secret" is at work that have led me to meet many wise and inspiring people, in which some agreed to be my mentors. Besides, I was also led to many motivating books/audio books, providing me the knowledge I need to achieve my life crusade. I also strongly believe that "Law of Attraction" has fulfilled what I am asking by offering me an opportunity to learn about "The Secret" in one of the discussion session with my mentor- he shared the video with me. Life since then has never been the same.

I would call it a material gains last year as I have attracted many new things, including a new car, a new mobile phone, a new job...etc. Nevertheless, my biggest dream, which is to revisit London (via business trip), came through last year too! I have also acquired a lot of useful knowledge through many books.

However, this year is a totally different awarding year, although the year has just past the first quarter. I would like to call it a year of "self-development" and "action-driven". Many have been said then done the year before, but the direction is changed after my dad's death.

It is also through the change and action-oriented goal, this Syn3rg1sm blog is born, meeting with Michael in person, inspired many people to have a more positive mind set through the sharing of "The Secret" and "Law of Attraction"... etc.

As I was looking at my colleague's 1 million pound cheque (using the one provided by The Secret) on his workstation, I got another idea of the cheque I want.

Rather having the following Monetary Cheque, I want the "Inspired & Happy People Cheque". Take note of the "smiley" as the "sign" and "INSPIRED & HAPPY PEOPLE" as the "unit".

Monetary Cheque (Click to enlarge image)


Inspired & Happy People Cheque (Click to enlarge image)

I would like to take this opportunity to sincerely thank my mentors, dad, authors of this blog, friends, colleagues, everyone and the universe in all the supports, in helping me to be a step closer in achieving my life crusade.

Have a inspiring and happy life ahead!

Huat Heng

Attract What You Want

Why are some people successful and manage to attract everything they want compared to the rest? Why can’t I have my dream house, my dream car or my dream job? Why, why, oh why...

Have you ever thought like this before? If yes, then welcome to the not so happening club! There are millions of people experiences the same. Instead of using their wonderful asset called the MIND to attract what they want, we are wasting our precious energy and postponing or literally canceling the benefits of our power.

For the past week, I was having a recurrence of events, which is related to what I have read in 'The Secret', 'Law of Attraction' and almost all other self development books.

Early last week, I was parking my car in the office car park when I realized that there was this new model Camry that was being parked at my director's car spot. I was astonished as he uses an old Camry.

I saw my big boss getting down from the car. I asked him and he said he just got this car. I recall him talking about this car with passion for a few months and even well aware of the details of the car.

Today I bumped into my cousin. He just changed his car to a BMW 5 series. He has been talking about this car for quite a while. He has been having this image of getting into the car, putting on the seat belt, starting the engine…etc. He even test drove this car a few years ago although he could not afford it at that time.

Being curious, I asked him about this. He started talking about his experience with a gentleman called Francis Khoo, whom he interviewed in 1997. The gentleman told him that to be successful we will have to visualize the details.

This man pulled out images of car. ‘You need to have the clear detail of what you want, how you want it to be, how will you feel when you put on the seat belt, when you drive it…etc.’ This is exactly what “The Secret” says and I bet you it was not out in 1997!

And there is living proof now of this as his wish for BMW 5 series materialized.

If you really, really want something, don’t ever say “no”, “not”, “cannot” or “don’t”.

If you say I don’t want to be poor. The mind takes the message anyway as a negative vibe (as in “poor”). This will dilute or remove out all the positive aspects of what you need to do. It is useless to then go ahead and do something as 99% it will not turn out to be as expected.

Other than work, I always have problems in other areas like investment and business. I had not been getting good returns. I always used to feel bad about it. However, now I understand where it went wrong.

It’s always been like - I won’t fail, I won’t lose money, I won’t make mistakes…etc. Of course I will. At work till now, I have never thought I will not fail. Whenever at work, it has always been I will come out of this successfully. I am now going to use the same principle for my other areas of life and I am pretty confident I will share with you the successful results in future blog.

Say you want to be rich is not enough. You have to have a set goal - how much money do you want in your current account. Visualize the feeling of having it already. Believe you can do it and then start working on it. If possible, do a mock statement of your bank account. Look at it, visualize it to make it real.

There is a very good article which our friend YC shared with us. Its “Doing without doing”. Now it’s not that you are just sitting somewhere and not doing anything expecting a windfall!

What it says is you first have to belief. Unwavering belief of what you want, why you want to do, followed by the visualization and then lastly only followed by the action. The ‘intention’ or the ‘Why’ is the key.

In short it is “being - having and then doing”, which is similar and linked to the car incident earlier shared by my cousin.

Always remember that your mind is like a garden. Either cultivate it with good fertile soil, tend to it to be vibrant or allow it to be muddled. As we are going to live our lives anyway, why don’t we opt for this first option? You have the choice!

GKing

Love and Forgiveness

Love is a universal language. Every soul that roams around this planet has the ability to feel and give love.

But what is lacking in today's world? From the events that shape our world today, clearly there is something lacking with humans.

Greediness & hatred are the main contributors to the situation of our planet today.

Excessive desirous of wealth of certain powerful nation has produced ill effect on our planetary eco-system. Global warming is slowly changing the climate of the earth and extinction of many species is slowly becoming a reality.
On the other hand, hatred among races, religion and country are becoming rampant. Why? What is the cause? …..simple “WE ARE THE CAUSE”…

Let’s look at this 2 basic values which can do wonders…Love and forgiveness….

Love – Many people think that love is only affection towards parents, lovers, children and friends. But the “love” I’m referring to is the benevolent affection towards all beings on this planet. Only a number of people have this affection – Saints, Swamis and some religious leaders (eg. Dalai Lama).

According to Metaphysicians, “Everything on earth –even objects without life, has 3 things attached to it, angels, spirits and the energy of the object”. All of us have some energy field around our body, angels that assigned to us by god upon our birth and also spirits. Spirits can be either positive or negative energy. If negative spirits attach to us, then we will have problems. Remember, if we hurt a person, it is not only we are hurting him/her but also the angels & spirits that are attached to them. By doing prayers, meditation, doing good deeds & being good increases our positive vibes around our body and allow angels to communicate with us and also elevate us to higher level of consciousness.

So if we start looking at people and things as something beyond physical – as energy from god we can change our perception, we would not vandalise properties and hurt others. First of all, it is not difficult to give a smile to every living creature, to speak politely, to do good deeds, being compassionate, to offer a helping hand, and to create a win-win situation among us.

Every single creature on this earth has a role to play and the right to live life. Let us not compare our skin color, religion and race as all of us are god’s creatures. All of our souls are from the same source.

Forgiveness – this is a powerful compassionate tool. Often, our ego is stronger than our compassionate feelings and thus blocks our sense of forgiveness. We do block our mental energy by locking up all those bad memories of the past and emotions in our brain. This will not allow us to attract the things we want in our lives. What you have to do now is forgive (Joe Vitale : The Key 97)

From my experience, after breaking up with my girlfriend, I felt that I was taken for granted and cheated. I’d failed to forgive myself and my ex-girlfriend. As for nearly 2 years, the mental block of not forgiving has made me not to attract romantic love life.

After such incident, I always ponder why this has to happen but fail to realise the lesson that it imparted on my soul. I’ve started seeking answers by prayers and meditation, after sometime I’ve started receiving messages- from books, people & article on how to forgive. Note that why I’ve mention prayers and meditation to seek answers. By praying and meditating, we can send messages to the cosmic energy of the universe for guidance. The cosmic energy (eg. angels, spirits) will guide us to the answer. Here, my answer came from books, people and articles.

After learning about forgiveness, I’ve began to forgave myself and my ex-girlfriend. After sometime, we became friends. And miraculously, I’d able to attract the romantic love life again.

Let us start sharing love and learn to forgive. We have to be the CHANGE we want to see in this world.

Starofdavid

We Are Registered!

It's my greatest pleasure to announcement that our group has been registered to Michael J. Losier's website as one of the Local In-Person Law of Attraction Group, under International Cities of Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

You can find the contact information at Local in-person Law of Attraction Group, scroll down to the International Cities and look for Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. At the same time, you can also contact us with the contact information at the right side bar of this blog.













Michael's website- Local in-person Law of Attraction Group page.



















Our contact details under Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia (loa.mykulgroup@gmail.com) . We really appreciate Michael and Dianne in helping us to achieve this.

Huat Heng

Meeting Michael J. Losier In Person

I was first introduced to The Secret in November 2006 by my mentor from Singapore after I returned from my UK trip. He showed me the DVD video of The Secret for 30-40 min. I was first impressed with the production of the video, especially the introduction (first 5 minutes of the video). Then, I come to realize the secret- the Law of Attraction. I continuously watch the video everyday for 2 weeks, it sounds crazy, but I was really indulge in what the secret is and how to apply it to change my life. When the book was first available in Malaysia, I bought it without hesitation. From there on, my life have really changed, of course it becomes better. I continue to share with my close friends about it and we realize more and more people also come to know about the secret eventually. And most of us have also appreciate that it works! I see it a definite, since it's a Law, just like our Law of Gravity. It can't be wrong.

However, many of us were stuck in one similar situation, which is how to apply the secret easily in any arena we tried to achieve what we want. The Secret explains that we 'Ask, Receive and Accept'. It's quite conceptual to most of us, until I found the book Law of Attraction by Michael J. Losier. I use it as my workbook in applying the secret. The explanations and step-by-step guides are simple and straight-forward. It helps me to achieve more of what I wanted.

Amazing things continue to happen and I believe it's Law of Attraction that led me to have a chance to meet Michael J. Losier in person yesterday at the Borders bookstore in The Curve. He started off by giving a quick overview of Law of Attraction, introducing the 'coincidence', 'serendipity', 'lucky' occurrences we encounter, positive or negative 'vibes' (vibration) that we project and words we use, which are related to the understanding of Law of Attraction. He then explained the 3-Step Formula for Deliberate Attraction, which are Identify Your Desire, Give Your Desire Attention and Allow It. These are elaborated in his book in detail.

Besides, I like his analogy in explaining how our mind response to the 3 words that we should avoid (Don't, Not and No). He advised us to imagine the Law of Attraction as the Internet Search Engine, when we are asking for what we desire, but not what we are trying to avoid. For instance, when we are late for work and want a smooth driving towards the office, we tend to ask 'No traffic jam'. However, the attention of the mind is on 'traffic jam' instead of 'no traffic jam'. Similarly, in the Internet Search Engine, if we do not want to search for topics related to football, if we enter 'Not football' in the search phrase, because the Internet Search Engine does not know 'Not' and therefore it will display results related to 'football'.

Michael ended the session with an autograph session. Gajen, YC (my new friend, who is Gajen's friend whom I met at this session) and I got Michael's signature and close-up photograph with him. Furthermore, we have shared with him about this blog and he has advised us in the best approach to share Law of Attraction to the rest. It was really a fruitful session.

I Be What I Vibrate!

















































Huat Heng

Treat Your Thought As A Switch

Thoughts flash into your mind every instant. Some are uplifting, some depressing and some have no sense or meaning attached to it.

What is required to be successful and have a happy life? What is the difference between saints and normal people? Why most of the initial ones contended while the latter ones stressed out and burnt out in many cases. Don’t they have problems that we don’t have?

Concentration, abstinence is a big challenge for them as compared with the challenges we face in our daily lives. It is not much of a difference.

It is the thought process. Ask yourself whenever you get a negative thought (upsetting, blaming, jealous thoughts), what do you do? Most of the time, you either blame yourself, blame others go on self fulfilling prophecy and what you fear / dread becomes true!

Is this fruitful? Regardless if it is good or bad, said and done, you have to face the situation at the end of the day. The person who clears the mess is the person who initially either accepted the issue at hand or denied it.

How do u handle this. To start with, treat the vibe (thought) you get like a switch. When you have a negative incident, negative thought - don’t fight it - accept it and turn it off with positive ones.

Switch off the negative thoughts and switch on the positive ones. BE REALISTIC THOUGH.

The positive ones are the thoughts you believe in. The thoughts/ beliefs you live by.

Not some wishful thinking or just wondering like ‘oh my universe/god! I think positive, you save me.’ You are going to be let down. You got to believe it. You got to say, ‘No matter what the outcome will be, I have the ability to come out of this and I will do it.’

I will give you two examples. I am running a project for a health services company. I am very passionate about this as I will be able to contribute something positive to society on its completion. Currently, due to work obligations, my hands are full. I am tired and cursing myself for taking this up. I can’t think on the write up I am supposed to give this company.

This vibe/thought goes on for 1 hour and I feel down in dumps. On one side, the brain tells me, ‘You got to start something’. But, on another side, my unreasonable mind tells me ‘Damn, I don’t have time, I don’t deserve this… blah blah’.

I asked myself which I believe in most.

Suddenly a thought flashes in the mind. As what T. Harv Eker (author of Millionaire Mind) said, ‘you make sure reality, whether it’s good or bad". I asked myself, ‘What if this task is already completed, how would I feel? What would it be if I can get this project running? My long term goal in life is accomplished! What more would I want?’

I pulled up a notepad and scribbled down ideas to do to get me out of this mess. Split the tasks into action items. In 15 minutes, there is some fruitful direction shaping up. I called up a friend and asked for help. We spent the next 4 hours strategizing. In the next few minutes, I have a call with the company and I must say I am well prepared.

How did I achieve this? It’s due to a 1 minute positive thinking backed by solid belief. Therefore, switch off the negative thoughts and switch on positive ones.

The second incident I believe you can relate to is when you are stuck in a traffic jam. I got stuck near Pantai Dalam on Thursday, Mar 6^th 2008, because of some election rally for 50 minutes. Instead of cursing and swearing (which I did for a little over 1 min), I thought of using the “Switch thoughts “concept. I started to pause and think of what needs to done when I reach home, what I haven’t done for past 1 week or month due to lack of time. What would make me proud with a sense of achievement and peacefulness. I have identified, at that particular instance, so many things that had been neglected and what could be done to speed up the current process. Once I got home, straightaway I got into the work and cleared some tasks, which I was not able to a few days ago.

I am striving to apply this concept now for almost everything and can see results every time so far. End result is amazing. The feeling of helplessness was replaced with confidence and expectation.

Remember to treat your thoughts like a switch. The depressing ones, switch them off and replace with the promising, uplifting thoughts which you “believe” in.

GKing

Power of Positive Thoughts

When you allow negative feelings/thoughts into your mind, the energy field around your body will attract negative forces, and this will create a blockage in your brain and stop or delay the fruits of the task or duty.

I believe all of us have experience negative thoughts/feeling running into our mind sometimes. If you rethink the time when you had the negative feelings/thoughts, you can realize the power of the negative forces and the outcome.

Personally from my experience, once at work, while I was performing my duty as an engineer, I was working on a high priority problem and all of a sudden my Laptop crashes, this is it! Frustration and anger fill up my mental space and on the other hand my boss was bugging me to get the job done immediately, Because of anger I spoke rudely to my boss , and after I got the replacement laptop, I was still feeling frustrated and angry, and I continued to work on the problem, Normally it would take me 1 or 2 hours to resolve the problem But in this case, I took nearly 3 hours to resolve it excluding the time of the replacement laptop and time to get on the job again.

Anger and frustration created a block up in my mental space and my brain was not optimized.

I could have turn things around by remaining calm and not allow anger to take control of my brain. If I remain calm (positive thought/feeling) I would not diminish my image by speaking rudely to my boss and I would have solved the problem within the timeframe of 1 or 2 hours as how I would normally perform.

By just simply running positive thoughts/feelings when you are in a bad mood, you can turn things dramatically. For example, if you are angry, just think of a person you are close to and run the thought of fun times together you had previously. This makes your anger to reside and eventually you can attract calmness. There are many ways of attracting positive thoughts actually, eg. recite prayers, meditation, thinking of the fun times you had, or by just simply talking to your loved ones over the phone for few minutes.

Steps to shift from negative to positive thoughts/feeling:-

1) Remain Calm – Take few deep breath
2) Think of something positive – eg. recite prayers, meditation
3) Access the situation
4) Think of ways to resolve the issue with the best interest of everyone involved

I know that shifting from negative thoughts to positive is not easy for most of us. , but as for start practice it for daily small problems –practice makes perfect- Good luck

Starofdavid